The New York Times has a story on the Phoenix Country Club, a private golf club which remains tightly bound to its traditional "men only" grill. The grill appears to be the only place a golfer can get a drink and talk with others. There is a dining room which is only open during meal times and women may eat there. But the rest of the time women members are relegated to a womens grill room:
"As teenage boys saunter into the sumptuously appointed men’s grill
room, their mothers are relegated to the ladies’ grill, down the hall
with a hot plate, some card tables and no bar." Additionally, "Women at the club are not permitted to have lunch in the men’s grill
room with their husbands after a round of golf; they have been barred
from trophy ceremonies after tournaments, even ones they have
sponsored, and may not participate in one of the most sacred rituals of
the men’s grill room — sealing a deal over a beer with a client."
Augusta National is well known for not allowing women as members, but Phoenix does. However, they are made to feel less than welcome. Women are involved in everything these days, working in every possible occupation, running for highest office, but yet, private golf courses seem to be the last places on earth where they may not participate fully.
This is just such a weird golfing community philosophy.