This short bit of humor from the New Yorker gets it exactly right. The title is, "Please, Oh, Please, Update Adobe Flash"
This is perfect for me this morning because my web pages will stop working and then a little box comes up which tells me "Adobe Flash has stopped working, do you want to quit or continue?" Neither! I want Adobe Flash to go away and leave my computer alone. This happens several times a year and in the end I'm told to update Adobe flash. Good luck finding the update place. Here are a few lines from this article which contains more than I have pasted in, but it is all so true.