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Dedicating Wartburg

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    Wartburg Hall's transformation from dining hall to a commons area was dedicated on September 18.

June 30, 2008

Irritated by Fourth of July events

The MAtH (man about the house)and I and see the always relevant Dianne Isbell staying right on current events in her Monday Etiquette column in the Belleville News-Democrat today.

Me:  Dianne is highlighting letters from people about the 4th of July today.

MAtH:  Always on the cutting edge of current events, that's Dianne.  It's nice to know we don't have to read about weddings again today.

Me:  Well....not so fast concluding that.

MAtH:  You're kidding, right?

Me:  Nope.

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June 23, 2008

No talking in church

The MAtH (man about the house) and I are finding some common ground with Dianne Isbell today in her Monday Etiquette column in the Belleville News-Democrat.

Me: Here's a church related question to Dianne today.

MAtH:  Ok

Me:  You don't sound all that interested.

MAtH:  Oh, I'm interested, just a little worried about what it might be.

Me:  It's about talking.

MAtH:
  Let's hear it.

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June 16, 2008

No shows

Seeing as this particular day happens to be our anniversary, the MAtH (man about the house) and I are giving a more than serious look at Dianne Isbell's Monday Etiquette column in the Belleville News-Democrat today.

Me:  Dianne has another wedding question today.

MAtH:  Bring it on.

Me:  Really?

MAtH:
  Memories memories.  I'm in the mood for wedding talk today.

Me: I'm sort of in shock, but ok.  Here we go.

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June 09, 2008

Sampling the dressing and battery fans

The MAtH (man about the house) and I are in awe at the number of questions Dianne Isbell received this week for her Monday Etiquette column in the Belleville News-Democrat.

Me:  Wow.  By my count, Dianne got five questions in the mail today.

MAtH:
  Is her column continued on page 3?

Me:
  No, she was brief and to the point in answering today.

MAtH:
  Wait.  Let me look out the window.  Nope, the sun has still come up in the east.

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June 02, 2008

The honeymoon can wait

It's June and the MAtH (man about the house) and I are thinking about weddings thanks to Dianne Isbell's Monday Etiquette column in the Belleville News-Democrat.

Me: Uh oh.

MAtH:
  What, uh oh?

Me:  Dianne has a wedding question.

MAtH:
  Oh no.  Is it June already?

Me:
  Yep, let the wedding questions begin.

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May 26, 2008

Revisiting flag etiquette

Memorial Day is a good time to refresh our memories on flag etiquette and with that in mind I am re-running last year's Monday Etiquette Column.

The MAtH (man about the house) and I are happy to see Dianne Isbell turn her column in the Belleville News-Democrat over to discussing flag etiquette on this Memorial Day.

Me
:  Dianne gets a question from a reader asking, "Would you please remind people who display our American flag on a regular basis that it is to be flown at half-staff until noon on Memorial Day? Also, would you please give the proper manner in which to do it?"

MAtH:  Good question.  Does she say how you're supposed to do that if the home flag is in a bracket on the house rather than up on a pole?

Me:  No, and I haven't been able to find any information on how to do that.

MAtH:  You know, I don't think I realized flags should be at half-staff until noon on Memorial Day.

Me:  I bet most people don't unless they are in charge of the flag poles where they work or are in government offices.

MAtH:  So what does Dianne say?

Me:  Yes, in accordance with U.S. Code, Title 4, Chapter 1, Section 7(m), the flag should be displayed at half-staff until noon. The proper manner in which to do this is to, at dawn, on the morning of Memorial Day, raise the flag quickly to the top of the flagpole. Then, keep it there momentarily and slowly, repeat slowly, to halfway down the pole. At noon at your home raise the flag back up to the top of the flag pole. I emphasize "noon at your home" because I had a reader ask me if it is noon, Washington, D.C., time because of the fact that the Capitol is there and the President's office. No, it is noon where you live and where your flag is being displayed.

MAtH:  Well, we don't have a pole so what does that mean for us?

Me: I can't find any information on how flags in brackets fixed to a porch or house front apply.  They aren't really made to be put at half-staff so I guess they stay the way they are. But, flag rules say:  When the flag of the United States is displayed from a staff projecting horizontally or at an angle from the window sill, balcony, or front of a building, the union of the flag should be placed at the peak of the staff unless the flag is at half-staff.  Uh oh, "unless the flag is at half-staff".

MAtH:  Ours is already out and I don't think there is any way to move it down, there are no holes in the pole.

Me:  But it looks right according to the rules

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MAtH:  What about the big flags which get hung on buildings?  Are the stars to the left as you look at them or to the right?

Me: To the left.  "When displayed either horizontally or vertically against a wall, the union should be uppermost and to the flag's own right, that is, to the observer's left. When displayed in a window it should be displayed in the same way, that is with the union or blue field to the left of the observer in the street."

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MAtH:  And, what about putting small flags in the ground or in planters?

Me:  I see nothing about that in the Flag Rules and Regulations, but I think we can take our cue from the American Legion and the VFW in Collinsville.  They know the rules and they always put small flags in the ground and in pots around their monuments on Memorial day.

MAtH:  I put flags out all around the campus this morning, I'm glad to hear it is ok the way I did it.

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Me:  But, it it starts raining, we have to get them taken down.  The U.S. History website has a very complete explanation of flag rules and etiquette including a few examples of violations which are interesting.  Flags should not be worn as apparel, or as carpet decoration which can be stood on, nor flown or carried upside down, or written on, etc.

MAtH:  Good information, now, what's the protocol about saluting or having a hand over the heart when a flag passes?

Me:  People in uniform salute, people not in uniform but wearing some type of cap should take the cap off with the right hand and bring the cap over to the left shoulder and hold it there until the flag goes by or the Pledge of Allegiance has been said.  All others put a hand over the heart.

MAtH:  Dianne went through all of this?

Me:  No, she stuck to the one question about the flag at half-staff, but the rest came from the U.S. History site.  A good site to bookmark.

May 19, 2008

Those scary Bed and Breakfast places

The MAtH (man about the house) and I are making mental notes not to ever consider staying in a Bed and Breakfast after reading Dianne Isbell's Monday Etiquette column in the Belleville News-Democrat.

Me:  Dianne has a one question column today.

MAtH:  We aren't back to purse hooks again are we?

Me:
No, and it isn't about weddings either.

MAtH:  Proms are over, so what could it be?

Me:  Bed and Breakfasts.

MAtH:
Scary thought.

Me:  You don't know the half of it.

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May 05, 2008

Wearing black and spitting

Monday Etiquette will be up a bit later, it's one of those mornings.

April 28, 2008

Prom dresses and noisy retirees

The MAtH (man about the house) and I laughed so hard at Dianne Isbell's Monday Etiquette column in the Belleville News-Democrat this morning we could hardly hold our coffee cups.

Me:  It's that time of year again.

MAtH:  Time to call the exterminator to get rid of the ants?

Me:  That too, but no...prom time.

MAtH: Oh no.

Me: Yep and also neighbors who crank up their lawn equipment too early on weekends.

MAtH:  I've never cranked up lawn equipment in my life.  That's why I got married, so I wouldn't have to do that kind of work.

Me: 

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April 14, 2008

Sharing those pet peeves

The MAtH (man about the house) and I have found the past two Monday Etiquette columns by Dianne Isbell in the Belleville News-Democrat a big yawn, one on a book by George Washington written as a young boy and another on something we can't even remember.  But today she is back on track.

Me:
  Dianne has a column on pet peeves her readers sent in.

MAtH:  Oh gee.

Me:
  Come on, this column has to defy common practice against all odds.

MAtH:
  How so....uh oh...I know what's coming.

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